Came across a buddhist blog which mentioned something interesting :
"There are those who expect apologies for small matters,while not apologising for small matters.
There are those who expect apologies for small matters,while apologising for small matters.
There are those who don't expect apologies for small matters,while not apologising for small matters.
There are those who don't expect apologises for small matters,while apologising for small matters."
Which one are you?
~ Not sure which category I belong..depends on situation I guess. Anyway, better to strive towards the last category. Not expecting is the best way to avoid disappointment..while apologising on small matter is necessary if it can resolve misunderstandings. Not apologising on small matters (whether intentional or unintentional mistakes) reflects one's ego...and the fear of losing it. ~
